Testimonials

Testimonials for Podcast and Radio Shows

“This was amazing… 1. I loved the positive tone. 2. State of the union…awesome! I’m seeing someone and he asks me regularly what he can do to make my life better. He also makes sure to tell me daily the he cares for me. That check in does wonders for our relationship. 3. Addressing reluctance…yes!! Avoiding your own agenda, mind reading, interrupting…yes, yes, yes! 4. Techniques…what a great way to give tools to couples. 5. The need to hear but also feel love. 6. Mentioning ‘approachable” yes! Well rounded, good tools, good encouragement, you presented hope and this is so needed.”
– Lisa S Evergreen, CO
“I love love love this!!! So many people give up so quickly!! This is a awesome way to get out there and show options instead of easy ways out.”
– Dawn B Chicago, IL
“Cuz, I listened, and I thought it was very professionally done. I have some questions…I assume that this is not a live broadcast? Or is it? I like your idea of a State of the Union. Many people will not know what to “bring to the table” in these discussions. I like the idea of giving them ideas about what to say or ask. If there are real problems in a marriage, then you would think most of the comments would be negative. I would try to accentuate the positives between both sides. Why did you get married in the first place? Can you go back and replicate that feeling? What might have changed for the worse? For the better? I remember our priest (even though I am John the Baptist) ask the congregation to raise their hands if they thought a marriage was a 50/50 proposition. I would bet that 98% raised their hands. I knew better and as the priest went on to explain……a marriage is sometimes 50/50, sometimes 80/20, sometimes 90/10, sometimes 20/80…you get the idea. I think your presentation is excellent. Is this going to be a weekly show? Will it be live where people call in? I know you get letters and you respond to those which is good. I imagine these discussions can be very difficult at times and very positive at times. You must get great satisfaction when you can save someone’s marriage! Keep up the good work. Send me the next one too.”
– John B Chicago, IL
“I luv it!! I was listening to it and was reminded of my daughter who is 21 and she and her husband got married in November and she is already complaining about how they can’t communicate and the issues they are having. I was just thinking man this can’t be to good but the information on that show can help so many!! So many need to work harder.. you never hear of a 30 year marriage anymore.. I believe social media has so much to do with a unhappy marriage.. I will for sure share this thank you so much for sharing.”
– Dawn B Chicago, IL
“Mike and Dawne, the show is so well done. Engaging, practical, professional, and gives helpful advice on a level many can easily grab hold of. Also like the way it gives opportunity for further help for marriages that a fragile or in deeper trouble. Some subjects I think might be helpful to address could be: dealing with unmet expectations, how do we rekindle our love, secret sins and hiding, dealing with resentment, having a date life after marriage, past hurts affecting a present marriage, neglecting your marriage while raising your children, marriage and blended families, keeping short accounts-asking forgiveness, money and marriage, self-centered in sex-time-desires-hobbies, how to talk and listen in ways one another really hears, considering one another more highly than oneself, enjoying one another over tolerating one another.”
– Pastor John B Denver CO
“WOW……I think it sounds awesome and very professional. I think covering deeper issues that I know a lot of divorces go through are abuse, whether it be emotional, verbal or physical are very real, as well as infidelity….. issues that are very hard to forgive or get over and would likely need to be addressed. I hope that this takes off, it does sound great. Is it only airing in CO? Maybe after it airs, you could have a FB page for it and also get ideas from listeners or people that would listen via FB, if that is allowed with that radio station. You have my vote -sounds -AWESOME !”
-Tracey B Kansas City, KS
“Good job, bro! You and Dawn had some great suggestions for not only for those considering divorce, but also those with good marriages. Keep it up! Steve K, Indy, IN
So 1. evening radio show, 2. downloadable podcast or itunes or available by subscription via your webpage.”
– Agnes F. London, England
“…if you do a radio show, its a very small exposure
you need to store episodes somewhere, so people can listen to them weekly but at their own convenience like an audio book etc.”
– Agnes F. London, England
“Finally had a chance to listen. I like the idea of a state of the union check in. I feel like both parties would need to be invested for it to be helpful, and if they have already committed to making the marriage better then it would be a nice way to connect and help each other be a better spouse.
I know I have tried to find a way to talk about what we need from each other, and it turned into a lot of blaming- mostly blaming me (even when I had acknowledged what he was saying, and even agreed, and even said that would be something I would try to do better at). Things did get better for a short time however, because I made an effort to do things he needed, but eventually the resentment and frustration settled back in and I really found myself struggling to do what he needed. That’s where we are now, although I have been trying to do a little better the last couple weeks, but I am really struggling without some reciprocity”.
– Rana J. Houston TX
“Wow, I mean wow, Mike your show was really good. You and dawne really interacted back and forth. Neither of you dominated the conversation, very well done. Your voices sounded great and the Masculine/Feminine interchange really kept my attention. I especially liked the ” The State of the Union ” that really stuck all the way through the show. Now some points I picked up on. I liked the idea of “The List”, Wife list, Husband list, his need for affirmation, Her need for Sensitivity. Speaking as a Man I do think guys keep a list in their heads. I thought the narrative breaks were perfect, I think there was three. That was a great way to move to another segment quickly, so you could stuff more into a half hour, but still stay on the subject of, State of the Union, Well Done. This is a personal note: I experienced in my past two marriages that she would rather work on his issues in counseling. Then after his issues were worked on even for several sessions, and now shall we work on her issues. It was time to work on still more of his issues, hoping to avoid her issues.
I also liked the, “What do I do that Bothers you” segment, ” Talking about the negatives”. This in a counseling session could be where it gets rough! This is the time where YOUR coaching needs to be there.
The “Do You Love Me” segment was the most important. I know for myself I need to hear it. It was interesting what Dawne said about, Women can’t feel it on the inside, meaning they need to know we “men” do Love them “Really” all the way deep. In the spur of the moment it doesn’t always come out that way, “I love you”. I would expect that time in a relationship would make the deep, deeper.
Finally, the segment about leaving work at work. Oh, mostly that’s impossible, I need vent time with the most important person in my life when I get home from work. I will carry that stuff with me throughout the evening if I don’t vent it out. All I need is some affirmation from my spouse that I’m really a good guy, honey I’m standing with you. That will soften the blow of the Day.
This has got to be a success Mike. You and Dawne really came across very comfortable. Please understand if I were to say Professional yes that dose apply. But here Comfortable is what the Heart needs to hear, and you guy’s nailed it.”
– Dan T. Denver CO
“Matters of the Heart” is a great title and points to the main source of our successes and failures. What also ties into this is the spiritual aspect of each other’s faith. It is God’s institution, He decreed it and we covenanted in our vows. This program’s topic was about communicating. Communicating isn’t always a sit down formality. Communication is, as you stated in the recording, coming home from work walking in that front door in a certain way. It’s also in getting up each and every morning. It’s helping each other and caring. It can be an all day opportunity for many couples. For Lucy and I it’s often, I work many days at home and Lucy is also at home as she’s retired from both, RN and homeschooling children. Marriage to me is about doing things, action. Feelings may become a result but is not a beginning. IF it was a marriage out of feelings only it’s a marriage for the wrong reasons. God has declared the marriage the ultimate contract for mankind. Imagine how important it is for all people and cultures to abide by God’s decree. A culture suffers from any deviation of what this marriage covenant represents and requires. So will our nation suffer as we deviate from true definitions of marriage and who deny who should be defining it. Michael, you are involved in the keeping of the marriages and thus the betterment of mankind. You are salvaging the order in our society. The heart is at issue in most marriages. External things could cause stress and breakup. Health is a big issue too and requires that additional strength. A faith in God has to be the common ground of any couple. Where it is strong the couple grows together in their walk with God. As God’s order becomes a part of each in the marriage, they faithfully grow closer together as a result. Problems in marriage is sin. Find the sin and prayerfully resolve it strengthens the marriage. What is the role of the wife in helping her husband to be Godly? How is the husband to lead his wife? Who has the final say in any decision? How do you find the beginning understandings of their expected role in a marriage? Goals are important. Having goals for each other and assisting each is showing a caring for each other. I talked to my daughter in her decisions of marriage. Do you know the costs, what it may be like to live in a certain area, will you be living near by, what are his goals, does he answer to a higher authority, will parents be able to help your family, do you know what it is meant to be a help meet for him. She said to me, I want to help him in his calling. How do you say you love your spouse. I was amused by that little exchange of how often you need to say it or love needs arms. We kid around together, “I love you today” we may say hinting, we’ll have to see about tomorrow, or thinking so you didn’t yesterday? lol. Or, she’ll ask, you know I love you right? I say of course I know, you made me a roast, you put gas in the car, you did this or that. Love is action and abiding by God’s law. His law defines how we are to love one another. All for now. You have much weight on your shoulders for obvious reasons. God’s blessings and wisdom in your work with others for mankind. Many topics for discussion in the bible as you well know. Even counsellors need counsellors but I’m just a man, husband and father who has an empty nest. Building any family apart from Jesus Christ will be built in vain. I rambled and hope you can get something out of this. Oh, another topic….hint…memories.”
– Todd H. Milwaukee WI
“Okay…I will start with this and if you want more detail, I will be happy to email you or arrange a verbal chat. I will leave that up to you. Let me begin by saying that the content was good. I found myself jumping ahead thinking I want to hear about … and in the very next moment you covered a part of that in general terms. It sounds very good; easy flow, calming and gives hope for the couples looking for help. And yes I have a few ideas on segments…which go along the lines of my critique of your radio clip. I will name three: Communication Between Men and Women — yes, we communicate differently. Understand That Unresolved Issues Take Time — don’t expect to just talk about it and think that it goes away…it takes regular affirmation and work.”
– Tammy D. New York City, NY
“Michael, Lisa and I listened to this together and I appreciated it. Some suggestions though. I do believe that a list needs to be decided on by both parties like, 3 or 4 things. Also, something that Lisa and I do and have done for the past 40 years is PDAs; holding hands, kissing in public, hugs, arms around each other. We also talk multiple times every day while we’re working and if we can’t we send texts. Showing an interest in your partner by communicating regularly is important or, at least, we think so. Overall I do think your show was quite good. I had a problem with your co-host’s voice since I wear hearing aids. Too even, too soft. Probably a mic thing. Anyway, good luck with the show and I hope you prosper well with it. and thanks for asking for my opinion, I appreciate it.”
– Russ P Evergreen CO
“Dad hasn’t listened to it yet but I was finally able to take some time and listen to it uninterrupted and I jotted down just a few things that stuck out to me about the show.
What I Like About the Show the topic pertains to all close relationships, not specifically just marriage.
It flows easily…no unnecessary pauses, no awkward pauses or talking over each other.
Encouraging, positive advice, it comes off as more of a conversation not forced communication. Thoughtful, important questions being asked/addressed I like the integration of questions from listeners so people can apply a real life situation to what is being discussed.”
– Tawny M. Zumbrota MN
“That was a great radio show! Im not sure if you’re looking for questions but I have a few lol. One is maybe how to bring things up? How to bring up that maybe there is a problem without the other reacting badly to the thought of communicating. And when is the right time especially if you are in a relationship potential crisis situation?
towards the end you both mentioned that when things get heated to take a step back. I think at least for me when you are trying to communicate, and it’s not being received or you get that feeling that your significant other is not putting in the effort as well, how do you not turn from kind thoughtful words to more condescending hurtful words. (I think some, including myself, will use kind words but when it’s not well received by SO those kind words quickly turn into nagging or lashing out because you are almost wanting them to feel your hurt).
This one kind of goes back to the first question. what happens to couples that do have these conversations, but nothing improves or maybe one changes to improve the relationship and the other doesn’t? I guess how can you get that significant other that has a hard time communicating and opening up to share their thoughts and want to take action instead of being complacent with the way things are? Brook A. Irvine, TX
Michael, I had an opportunity to listen to your new podcast and I have a couple of items I’d like to say regarding your new efforts.
I tremendously enjoyed the entire show as it is very easy to listen too as the tone is super. The quality is very strong and the interaction between you and Dawne is very smooth. I would imagine others would feel very much the same way.
The topic is one of much concern to society and this show hits it straight on! As I mentioned previously the tone of the broadcast is what first caught my attention. It is so direct to the listener it is like listening to a soft music station.
I applaud your approach and feel you have a product to be proud of.”
Be Well, Make It Count
– Corky F. Edmonds, WA.

Dr Mike is an awesome person, He saved my marriage and my husband, even though my husband had nothing to do with any kind of counseling and never seen Dr Mike for counseling. My Marriage was saved with me only seeing Dr Mike and lots of prayers from lots of people. I never thought I would be in this situation that I needed to save my marriage. Dr mike made me feel like there was hope when it didn't feel like it. He was compassionate and concerned and listened to me when I needed someone to listen (which was a lot ) When my husband told me he wanted a divorce I told myself I don't want this divorce and I will fight to get my marriage back no matter how long it took. There were days where I was confused, mad and scared but Dr mike helped me through all of it. He would tell me how to handle a situation and how it will effect my husband and he was always right every time. It took several months but my husband is back he is seeing a different counselor I go with him sometimes. But I will stick with Dr Mike and God with out them I would have lost my marriage. Danielle C
— Danielle C, North Platte NE

I really enjoyed reading your article, and think that this sort of resource is an excellent one. I myself also have been through the trials and tribulations of a messy divorce that I did not want; The fallout from this life changing experience has lasted for many years. I wish that I would have known of such a resource when the troubles in my marriage did present, i.e. before the marriage had ended; Now, more in the present, I would like to pursue more information on your counseling services – as I am in a place where I am seeking to finally heal and move forward. Please provide more information – specifically cost, will my health insurance cover & your location & hours of availability. Thank you so much – I look forward to hearing from you!
— Deanna

Dr. Mike helped my husband and I through a very difficult time triggered by my father-in-law’s passing away. We received excellent guidance for treating our full life of events and relationships. Not only did Dr. Mike help us during the current issues, he helped even more by providing us ‘tools’ that we can use to deal with issues happening in our lives in the future. Dr. Mike was very compassionate yet straightforward in his counseling. We would highly recommend him.
— Becky

Solid advice and very insightful. Mike assisted me thru some difficult times, emotionally and other. Easy to spaek with and his advise is based on solid ground. He always returns your calls as soon as he can and he he listens intently while you are going thru whatever the crisis that you might have. You will not be disppointed!
— Gary

Why is it men don't listen to their wives? My marriage was headed to divorce court when I contact Dr. Mike. We had a long talk about where my marriage was headed if I didn't make some quick changes. I wasn't listening to my wife, she was dropping hints all over the place. I heard her say leave me alone, I don't want to talk right now she said! I kept pushing for fixing our marriage, all the while pushing her away and not listening to her. I set up an appointment with Mike and we had a very interesting conversation. Dr. Mike told me that I was about to push my wife into filing for a divorce if I continued my destructive ways. He helped me make a plan on backing off and giving my wife time to heal. I needed to be healthy for myself and her and was in no shape to be in the same house with my wife. He helped me "work on me." He walked me through the process of making that happen. It was hard work and Mike was always checking on me to make sure I was doing the accountability work he gave me. Dr. Mike saved my marriage, he spoke words of encouragement during some tough times. I thought my world was falling apart, and I was going to be divorced. I have talked with other counselors, my wife and I tried counseling several times to no avail. The one thing I have never seen in the many attempts of counseling is a marriage coach/counselor that tells you the facts and what you need to do to save your marriage. Mike is a hands on kinda guy. He shares his personal insight and experiences with you so you understand what's ahead of you. All I can say is if your experiencing troubles in your marriage big or small, call Dr. Mike he can help you. He helped Susan and me.
— John, Key West, FL

Dr Brooks (no relation) was extremely instrumental in helping me work through a very difficult time in my professional career. He was straight forward, used common sense and a highly professional approach in helping me see the need to remove myself from a very difficult position. Helped give me life long tools to use as I continue to pursue my profession, with a new organization.
— J. Brooks

My initial contact with Dr. Mike was for fitness coaching. He set up a program that has made my time at the gym more productive. I’m finally starting to see the results of his coaching and my hard work! Along with the fitness coaching I’ve also shared other personal and career concerns with him. He has been a wonderful source of encouragement when I’ve literally been shaking like a leaf with fear about my future. He gently points out who my Source is and has used humor to remind me not to take myself too seriously! Although my journey is not yet over I have no doubt Dr. Mike is just a phone call away and ready to guide me in the right direction that will ultimately lead to personal and career success!
— Suzanne

As a professional athlete I never had time for my wife and family. During the football season I was focused on being the best NFL player at my position. I neglected my wife and children. My wife didn't like the hours I spent away from our family. We had a big fight and I walked out on her. I spent some time reflecting on what I needed to do, and honestly I didn't have a clue? I was referred to Dr. Mike by a friend who played for the Houston Texans. I called him and instantly felt this was the man who could help me. He explained that I needed to understand my wife had needs and so did our children. We talked about them and put together a plan to save my marriage. Talk about a tough coach, Dr. Mike is one of the best and was available anytime I needed him. I called him with my wife sitting next to me and we had ironed out some troubles we had to fix. Dr. Mike understands professional athletes. If your marriage is in trouble give him a call. I'm sure glad I did.
— Mitch

I have to say I am now a believer in Dr. Mike! I called him with very little hope in my marriage being saved. He coached me through some very tough times. I was a shell of myself and he encouraged me to not give up. I wanted to throw in the towel and quit several times. I loved my husband but his affair was killing me and our 4 children. Mike walked with me every step of the way. His advice was uncanny. He was right about my husbands actions and I was able to keep my sanity knowing what was ahead. If you're wondering if Dr. Mike can help you? He certainly can, I never felt alone once I started working with him. He is a hands on coach who gets you ready to fight for your marriage. His guidance and direction is practical and to the point. I have teased him on numerous occasions about his coaching personality he is a Judge Judy and Dr. Phil combination. He will not let you slack off but he will love you through the tough road you will walk. Did he save my marriage, YES! I have never been so happy, we are doing wonderful and the family is back. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Dr. Mike.
— Amanda, Loveland, CO

Dear Mike, So much has happened with you, my husband and me, reading your articles for the past three years, my husband commented: “now this is someone whom I could talk to, he makes my kind of sense.” I was speechless! Why? My husband in our 60 years of marriage knew he wanted to have a close husband-wife relationship, but was so entrenched with “spirituality,” he couldn’t accept his humaneness- a shield behind which he lived. Well, about two years ago the 3 of us met, and my husband actually called you asking to talk. Petrified, embarrassing and awkward feelings were discussed and began to awaken his appreciation for all the good he expressed as a father, only son, and husband. He fought with abnormal self-deprecation and insecurities. I as his wife, could not understand this and our relationship has “endured.” and secured because of two wonderful children and then the four grandkids. And, and, and…..but no close friends, as man and wife. But my husband was able to unload so much to you Mike, and consequently to me. I would begin to understand some of his fear and trepidation, and you know Mike at that point I giggled, I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. And he was so much freer as the meetings went on. Within the year, he passed away, but we had a closeness and awareness of each other and some verbal appreciation that very rarely had been expressed during our marriage. His parting words. “I never loved you as I should have and wanted to. I do love you, and I don’t know why I couldn’t express it.” My husband spent years working with church practitioners. Any persons of “outside” help were negated-until he read your words outlining a few simple steps encouraging one to bless, in order to be blessed! Thank you, Mike. I still subscribe to the “Register Call,” newspaper; you are one of the reasons. Hope a few other people will pick up the phone and call you. Both my husband and I thank you. We were almost too late. Katie R Boulder, CO
— Katie, Boulder, CO

“Dr. Mike Brooks Helped Me Save My Marriage” A year ago, I never would have thought that a statement like this would be part of my vocabulary. I didn’t expect and did not think I'd ever be in a position where restoration of my marriage was necessary, and in the unlikely event I actually did have a marriage problem, I would have resisted seeking guidance from any counselor. As it were however, in April of this year, after years if inattention to my marriage and wife, the pentup and unaddressed resentments between she and I climaxed and initiated a process that changed my life forever (ironically for the better). My wife had reached a breaking point and had resolved that our continued union was not worth her effort due my lack of acknowledgement of her continued expressions of dissatisfaction and my associated reactions to her communication efforts  she was done. At the time, my wife had threatened a restraining order and had asked me to move out of my home and away from her and our 3 young children. As a negotiation, I had temporarily relocated to a hotel room and my communication with her was limited to only essential texts or emails related to management of our children. It was my wife who initially contacted Dr. Brooks for help in developing a parenting plan to insulate our children from the effects of our new separation and seemingly inevitable divorce. Dr. Brooks had contacted me in response to her request; initially to obtain my input for assembly of the Parenting Plan my wife had asked for. Relatively quickly he recognized that I did not want to lose my wife, end my marriage, or negatively affect my children's lives through divorce. After some initial independent fact finding from both my wife and I, he offered to help me work on some things to improve myself and possibly my marriage. He negotiated a "grace period" of 30 days with my wife before any permanent decisions be made related to divorce. Dr. Brooks and I resolved to talk weekly by phone and email starting immediately. His 1st suggestion was to focus on selfimprovement and not my wife; to back off and give her time and space to heal while I worked on me. Additionally, he made himself available as an accountability backstop so that I wouldn’t negatively unload my frustrations on my wife and make the situation worse. The first month was difficult for me; continued harsh criticism from my wife, personal realization of the significant potential negative effects of the pending life changes, selfquestioning and blaming myself for the situation, uncomfortable and expensive living conditions, inability to focus on anything other than the problem (work, etc.), and realization that I had very few people available for support through the difficult personal time. Any attempt by me to independently communicate with my wife seemed to only push her further away regardless of what I had to say – humble or not. However, I followed Mike’s recommendations for behavior and reading to a “T”. And, I did it wholeheartedly with passion, making it my number 1 priority to capitalize on every opportunity I had. Slowly but surely, I realized that Mike was right – things between my wife and I improved. It took several months but by the date of our 14th wedding anniversary which occurred while I was living in an apartment, my wife offered to let me move home under a set of conditions which Dr. Brooks helped me reasonably negotiate with her. Now, I’ve been back home for 2 months. I continue to work with Mike on a weekly basis to share my progress and receive his guidance. While I wouldn’t say that I’m out of the woods completely yet, I have permanently incorporated the lessons, behaviors, and habits that he taught me into my life. I don’t know how long it will take me to fully reestablish my wife’s trust, love and respect however, I know that my personal relationship with my wife is already better than it has been in several years. I am a testament that Mike’s methods work if you’re looking to be the ballcarrier in saving your marriage.
— Jason, Washington

There are many STRONG words to describe Dr. Mike Brooks, but the ones that I feel were just the right ones I needed my Life Coach to have in his heart when I needed help were GODLY, good listener, compassionate, and concerned. His weekly homework was always eye opening and very achievable to complete. Today I THANK Dr. Mike for his help on ME letting others know how I want to be treated and reminding myself I matter!
— Anita

Way back when Dr. Mike was living in Wisconsin, we were young professional associates at a chiropractic clinic. Mike headed our physiotherapy department. I want to tell you, Mike had great competency! His therapeutic exercise programs helped many of my patients. But what really jumped out was his incredible rapport with the patients! His compassion for the patients was “off the charts”! His humor, his ability to listen, his faith allowed him to help people not only physically, but emotionally & spiritually. I have never met a more positive motivator of people! Since he moved to Colorado many years ago, i have continued to seek his advice professionally & personally. He has helped me thru some difficult times in my marriage, family life, & my work. He has become a valued, trusted friend I can always rely on. Do not hesitate to call on him!
— Bruce

Dr. Brooks helped me when no one else could. He took the time to understand the issues that I had and was facing, and then focused on what I needed to do to move forward and leave the past behind. He taught me how to acknowledge, forgive, learn, grow and then to move forward. Both, my professional relationships and my personal relationships have improved and I’m living a better quality of life due to Dr. Mike Brooks’ life coaching. He’s the best!
— K. Smith

Mike helped me go through a very painful divorce I never saw coming! I never dreamed in a million years my wife of 30 years would find her old high school boyfriend on the internet and go off and have an affair! The pain and hurt was unbearable, the feelings of loss and, anger and jealously were driving me to self-destruction. If it had not been for Mike and his understanding, and his crazy sense of humor to make you laugh at yourself, I don’t think I would have survived it. Thanks Mike, your the best and I have gained a good friend from the experience!
— Walt

Please fill in the form below to submit your testimonial.
Required fields are marked *