Tag Archives: Divorce
Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places
I was listening to my radio in my truck when I heard this old classic tune play on the radio: “I was looking for love in all the wrong places Looking for love in too many faces Searching their eyes … Continue reading
Divorce By Social Media (Facebook, Classmates, etc)
A recent client of mine told me about how his wife had reconnected with an old boyfriend from high school through Facebook.They hadn’t seen each other in 38 years and considered each other their “first love.” As we all know, … Continue reading
The Voice Of Hope 1
The Voice of Hope 1 Many people today have given up on their hopes and dreams. They have stopped believing in themselves and have waited for years to have someone tell them that their situation is not hopeless. The good … Continue reading
The Art Of Forgiveness 4
There is a lot of unforgiveness in divorces and I will get ex-spouses who are getting counseling/coaching asking I want to forgive them for the affair they had, but does that mean that I have to be friends with them … Continue reading
I Can’t Take It Anymore
I was at my desk when the phone rang,” I can’t stand her anymore! I’m done! I’m finished! It’s over!” I sat back and listened to every reason why this man wanted a divorce. He went on to complain, “She’s … Continue reading
Don’t Provoke Me
I was six years old when our military family made the long drive from Fort Lewis, Washington to Fort Slocum, NY. My sister Deb had a knack for picking fights. My dad didn’t tolerate fighting in the car and my … Continue reading
What Ever Happened to Martial Communication?
As I sat across my desk looking into the eyes of a new client, she was having a difficult time using the word divorce in a sentence. Finally, I asked her why she wanted a divorce. She became silent and … Continue reading
When Someone Encourages You to Get a Divorce
When is the last time you heard someone say to you or a friend, “If I were you I would get a divorce”? I hear it all the time in my office. I had a young man in my office … Continue reading
What Worries You?
As I sit here in my office today waiting for surgery I am not anxious at all, at least not for now. I do not like needles or IV’s which I know are very necessary to help the doctors do … Continue reading