When to Walk Away (5) By Dr. Michael Brooks
I had a client several years ago whose husband had an affair on her, so she went to her friends for their thoughts before she met with me, she had so many different opinions that she was totally confused, she wasn’t sure what her next steps should be. She had a few of her friends whose husbands cheated on them and was told by these friends to divorce her lying, cheating husband. She had some friends of her’s that their husbands cheated on them and they wanted to find out the reasons why their husbands cheated on them, and went to counseling with their husband and restored their relationship through months of hard work and counseling. Some of her friends who received counseling encouraged her to get counseling as well.
Make every attempt to save your relationship, if you try and get no results, the next steps will be needed.
Before you walk away, make every attempt to save your relationship so that you can walk away with clean hands, so you will not have any regrets. You can say that you gave it your all. You can stand before family and friends and announce, I’ve made every attempt to make this relationship work. You’ll never have to look back and wonder “what if.”
There are many reasons why people walk away, most of the reasons we know, and some we do not. Those who get no explanation at all are left wondering why, what did I do wrong, what did I do to cause this to happen to me? I want to reach out to you; I can help you sort through some of the reasons, and I can help you move on with your life. In the coming months, I will have some articles that will help you process of moving on and not looking back. Give me a call if you want to talk.
Do you feel frustrated about your failing marriage or relationship? Do you need help in saving your marriage and family from divorce? Do you have a spouse or partner who isn’t communicating with you and you want it restored? Do you want help in learning good communication skills? Are you the partner who wants to end your relationship because it’s unhealthy? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you need to contact Dr. Mike and set up an appointment. Please call Dr. Mike at 303.880.9878. If you need help.
Dr. Michael Brooks is the founder of Applicable Counseling and life coaching Services. It is affordable, accessible, anonymous and available by appointment from the privacy of your home. To avoid travel time and the comfort of home, many clients prefer to meet with Dr. Mike over the phone or via Skype (if you want to Skype with Dr. Mike send him an email at mbrooks3353@gmail.com to set up an appointment). The convenience of this type of Counseling/Coaching is the most effective means of Life Coaching for those who live outside of Colorado. Give Dr. Mike a call! You’ll be glad you did!