Category Archives: Divorce Coach

Can You Save Your Marriage Alone?

I get several calls a week with clients asking me if they can save their marriage when their spouse is unwilling or uninterested in doing their part to salvage the relationship. I tell them they can save it if they … Continue reading

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How to regain your sanity while going through a divorce

  I get several calls a week from folks asking me for help with their divorce. The stress that goes along with a trial separation and divorce can be overwhelming at times. Many feel they are going to lose their … Continue reading

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When Is It Time To Throw In The Towel?

  “You are so stupid, I cannot find a person more stupid than you”, her husband yelled. “You’re a jerk! Everyone thinks you’re pathetic!  Even I think you’re pathetic and you drink too much!  You’re a pig!” his wife responded.  … Continue reading

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Divorce From The Distant Pew

It was a perfect day for a wedding in the park. The sun was shining, the birds were singing and the smell of spring was in the air.  As the guests were being escorted to their seats, quiet laughing, whispers … Continue reading

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A recent client of mine told me about how his wife had reconnected with an old boyfriend from high school through Facebook.They hadn’t seen each other in 38 years and considered each other their “first love”.As we all know, a … Continue reading

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The Devil Made Me Do It!

Remember Flip Wilson playing the character of “Reverend Leroy “pastor of the “Church of What’s Happening Now,” and “Geraldine Jones,” the sassy African-American woman in a miniskirt? His characters were always blaming their bad behavior on the devil.  That famous … Continue reading

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Enemy In The Camp

Enemy in the Camp, have you ever heard this term used before? I hadn’t until I was in my twenties. I didn’t understand this term until it was used as a story to illustrate how friends and loved ones aren’t … Continue reading

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When Is The Last Time You Actually Listened To Me?

“When is the last time you actually listened to me? For years you have pretended to listen to me but you make no effort to do the things I am asking that would improve our marriage.” His wife was making … Continue reading

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What an horrible day

It was 7:00 a.m. on a Saturday morning when I heard a knock at the door. I slowly walked to the front door and opened it to a guy in blue jeans and a Broncos sweat-shirt. He asked if I … Continue reading

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What Is Your Marriage Worth To You?

What is your marriage worth to you? How do you put a price tag on 5, 10, 15, or 20+ years of marriage? It amazes me when couples break up how they say “You owe me plenty for staying with … Continue reading

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