Monthly Archives: December 2011
Should I fight for my marriage?
I get lots of calls from people who are having a tough time deciding if they should stay in a bad marriage or not. “What’s the point of staying in it” I often hear. Well, that’s entirely up to you. … Continue reading
Posted in Dr. Mike's rants
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Where has the Art of communication Gone?
“Don’t you remember I told you that I would be running errands after work today? I told you last week while you were in the shower. You never listen to me”, as she scolded her husband! It’s amazing how at … Continue reading
Posted in Divorce Coach
Tagged assumptions, Divorce, Dr. Mike divorce coach and counselor, heart-to-heart talk, verbalize
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I’m So Lonely I Could Cry
I used to watch a lot of TV just to kill time. It worked for a while but eventually I would begin thinking about my wife and the loneliness would settle in. We enjoyed watching all kinds of sports, movies, … Continue reading
Is Divorce My Only Option?
Divorce can be an ugly word when you’re on the receiving end. Even more when you get served papers. One of the heartbreaking aspects of my job is helping couples who are contemplating divorce. There are many reasons why people … Continue reading
Just How Painful Are the Holidays for You?
If you’re going through a divorce and are alone for Christmas and News Years, here are some words of encouragement for you: Go do something! Don’t sit around and say “Woe is me!” Get off the couch and get out … Continue reading
Posted in Divorce Coach
Tagged call someone, do something, ease the pain of divorce, encourage someone, helping others, troubles, worries
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“I want to forgive you, but I don’t know how!”
“I want to forgive, but I don’t know how!” When I found out that my wife was cheating on me with a man 22 years younger than she was, I was shocked! My pain was incredible! The lies and her … Continue reading
Posted in Divorce Coach
Tagged bitter, bitterness, coerce, consequences, Dr. Mike Brooks, Emotional pain, forgive, Letting go
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When will the guilt of having my affair stop? it’s killing me!
When will the guilt of having my affair stop? it’s killing me! I received a call yesterday from someone who is still living with past guilt about an affair that happened years ago. Is it worth it to keep beating … Continue reading
Posted in Divorce Coach
Tagged admit, affair, blaming, confessing, Dr. Mike, guilt, heavy burden, no peace, unresolved issues, wife
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Why Do the Holidays Cause So Much Pain?
As a child I remember the Christmas holiday meant no school, no homework, sleeping in late, watching TV and playing with my friends. As a child I really enjoyed the Christmas and New Year celebrations as I’m sure most children … Continue reading
Posted in Divorce Coach
Tagged acts of kindness, applicable life coaching, Divorce, dr michael Brooks, loneliness, memories, pain, separation
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Should I fight for my marriage?
Should I fight for my marriage? I get lots of calls from people who are having a tough time deciding if they should stay in a bad marriage or not. “What’s the point of staying in it” I often hear. … Continue reading