Category Archives: Divorce Coach

How To Tell Your Children You’re Separating

Posted on February 6, 2012 by drbrooks

How to tell your children you’re separating If you’re considering separation, one of the most difficult things you will face will be sitting down with your children and telling them that you and your spouse are temporarily separating. I’ve … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged children, confuse, divorced, game plan, impending separation, separating, separation | 1 Comment

Finding the healing you need

Posted on January 14, 2012 by drbrooks

This week’s article is about inner healing. Most people do not realize the amount of emotional damage that is done in the name of divorce. Unfortunately, many of those who pass through my office doors don’t know how to work … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged anonymous, barriers to the grieving process, convenience, Divorce, find freedom, heart ache, loneliness, my pain, no longer be married, pain, separation, things I had lost | Leave a comment

How to Set Up A Meeting with Dr. Mike Divorce Coach and Divorce Counselor

Posted on January 10, 2012 by drbrooks

I certainly know all about the pain of being alone while contemplating the option of divorce. For me, it happened while we both still lived in the same house. I was broken in spirit, frightened about my future, and had … Continue reading →

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I’m lonely, what do I do now?

Posted on January 7, 2012 by drbrooks

I used to watch a lot of TV just to kill time. It worked for a while but eventually I would begin thinking about my wife and the loneliness would settle in. We enjoyed watching all kinds of sports, movies … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged accountability partners, avoiding, casual sex, Divorce, habit, holding hands, isolation, kissing, loneliness, planning of your divorce, rebound relationships, repairing your marriage, sex, sexually transmitted diseases | 1 Comment

Don’t Listen To Friends Who Tell You To Divorce

Posted on January 1, 2012 by drbrooks

I counsel and divorce coach many men and women going through divorce in a year’s time. One thing I hear repeatedly from many of the women I counsel is that they got talked into a divorce by well-meaning friends. I … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged bad marriage, confronted, difficult time forgiving, Do you want a divorce, encourage, fragile marriage, how to communicate, live vicariously, newlyweds, recently divorced, reconciliation, separated | 1 Comment

Where has the Art of communication Gone?

Posted on December 19, 2011 by drbrooks

“Don’t you remember I told you that I would be running errands after work today? I told you last week while you were in the shower. You never listen to me”, as she scolded her husband! It’s amazing how at … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged assumptions, Divorce, Dr. Mike divorce coach and counselor, heart-to-heart talk, verbalize | 5 Comments

I’m So Lonely I Could Cry

Posted on December 15, 2011 by drbrooks

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged accountability partners, communication, loneliness, lonely, rebound relationships, repairing your marriage, sexually transmitted diseases | 1 Comment

Is Divorce My Only Option?

Posted on December 15, 2011 by drbrooks

Divorce can be an ugly word when you’re on the receiving end. Even more when you get served papers. One of the heartbreaking aspects of my job is helping couples who are contemplating divorce. There are many reasons why people … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged Colorado, communicate, communicating, Divorce, divorce can be painful, Dr. Mike divorce coach and counselor, marriage counseling, marry, Skype | 3 Comments

Just How Painful Are the Holidays for You?

Posted on December 13, 2011 by drbrooks

If you’re going through a divorce and are alone for Christmas and News Years, here are some words of encouragement for you: Go do something! Don’t sit around and say “Woe is me!” Get off the couch and get out … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged call someone, do something, ease the pain of divorce, encourage someone, helping others, troubles, worries | 1 Comment

“I want to forgive you, but I don’t know how!”

Posted on December 10, 2011 by drbrooks

“I want to forgive, but I don’t know how!” When I found out that my wife was cheating on me with a man 22 years younger than she was, I was shocked! My pain was incredible! The lies and her … Continue reading →

Posted in Divorce Coach | Tagged bitter, bitterness, coerce, consequences, Dr. Mike Brooks, Emotional pain, forgive, Letting go | 4 Comments