The Seven Sins of Martial Discourse (1) By Dr. Michael Brooks
I’ve often wondered why couples seem to have the same problems crop up in their marriages, year after year? I think once you’ve have discovered your problems in your marriage, you should just sit down, look at each other in the eyes and talk and find a solution to resolve your conflict. Well, not so fast my friend, this sounds easy, but that’s not the way this story ends, it’s just the beginning.
I often see or talk with couples who seem to agree to fix a problem and that it needs to be addressed or at least figured out what your next steps should be.
All couples disagree at one time or another; it’s a part of being married. I don’t know of a couple that hasn’t argued. It’s just how you handle your disagreements. Your arguments can be brutal, or a sit-down talk and walk through a plan on how to resolve what the issue is without the fighting. The next several weeks we will be going over the martial discourse issues in a bad marriage. If at any time you need to talk, please feel free to give me a call. If you want to save the marriage and need guidance in what you need to do, I can help you. If you have any questions, please feel free to give me a call. Our first topic of discussion next week, will be making assumptions in your marriage. How those can be deal breakers!
Do you feel frustrated about your failing marriage or relationship? Do you need help in saving your marriage and family from divorce? Do you have a spouse or partner who isn’t communicating with you and you want it restored? Do you want help in learning good communication skills? Are you the partner who wants to end your relationship because it’s unhealthy? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you need to contact Dr. Mike and set up an appointment. Please call Dr. Mike at 303.880.9878. If you need help.
Dr. Michael Brooks is the founder of Applicable Counseling and life coaching Services. It is affordable, accessible, anonymous and available by appointment from the privacy of your home. To avoid travel time and the comfort of home, many clients prefer to meet with Dr. Mike over the phone or via Skype (if you want to Skype with Dr. Mike send him an email at firstname.lastname@example.org to set up an appointment). The convenience of this type of Counseling/Coaching is the most effective means of Life Coaching for those who live outside of Colorado. Give Dr. Mike a call! You’ll be glad you did!