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The Art Of Forgiveness 4

There is a lot of unforgiveness in divorces and I will get ex-spouses who are getting counseling/coaching asking I want to forgive them for the affair they had, but does that mean that I have to be friends with them … Continue reading

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The Art Of Forgiveness (Part 2)

What does forgiving someone do for me? There are many benefits when we forgive someone that has hurt us. Once you let go of the anger and bitterness, healing starts to take place. You don’t dwell on the person or … Continue reading

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The Art Of Forgiveness Part 1

When is the last time you heard someone say “I will never forgive my ex-wife.  She can rot in Hades for all I care.” Or, “If Joe wants me to forgive him he better crawl on his hands and knees … Continue reading

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Don’t Provoke Me

I was six years old when our military family made the long drive from Fort Lewis, Washington to Fort Slocum, NY.  My sister Deb had a knack for picking fights. My dad didn’t tolerate fighting in the car and my … Continue reading

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What Ever Happened to Martial Communication?

As I sat across my desk looking into the eyes of a new client, she was having a difficult time using the word divorce in a sentence. Finally, I asked her why she wanted a divorce.  She became silent and … Continue reading

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Deciding to divorce-“What’s going on with me?”

Deciding to divorce By Michael Brooks “I am so confused! Yes, I want a divorce! No, I don’t. Should I work on my marriage? I can’t stand being married! Maybe I will file! Maybe my spouse will file! I have … Continue reading

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I Recieved Divorce Papers! What Do I Do Now?

Did you know that most attorneys are not trained to act as Counselors or Divorce Coaches and cannot provide the proper emotional support that their clients need? As a result, the attorney and client spend hours discussing the emotional aspects … Continue reading

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